Conversation card game
Skip the Script: Engagement Edition
Engagement comes with a script: stress, budgets, unsolicited advice. But you can skip it. 54 conversation cards tested by real couples, for the work that actually matters: figuring out how you two want to operate.
- 6 categories, from finances to faith
- Play for 10 minutes or a whole dinner date
- Printed in the USA. Rigid box.
- Built from the stories of 50+ real couples
SHIPS JANUARY 2027. Your digital starter pack unlocks the moment you order, so you can have your first conversation tonight.
First print run of 250 decks. You're charged today.
How it works
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Pick a card
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Get honest
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Grow closer
No winning. No right answers. Just the stuff that should come before "I do."
What's in the deck
Tap a card for a sneak peek
The categories
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You & MeHow our wedding becomes distinctly ours
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LogisticsHow we manage the moving parts
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FinancesHow we want to spend our wedding budget
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PartnershipHow we navigate this season as a team
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FaithHow our relationship with God plays a part
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GuestsHow we decide who's in the room, and why
From us
Why we made it
Wedding planning almost cost us the thing it was supposed to celebrate. We had spreadsheets for everything except the conversations that actually mattered. So we built the cards we wished we'd had, the ones that made us closer instead of busier. No script. Just the two of us, figuring it out together.
How we wrote the questions
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50+
couples shared their stories with us over a year of research, leading to our first draft of this deck
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9
engaged and newlywed couples we trust rated every question on a score of 1-5
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11
rounds of rewrites (with the help of a professional copy editor, thanks mom!)
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115
draft questions, through this process, became the final 54 cards in this deck
Ready to dive in?
Don't wait for the box. Start tonight.
Your pre-order includes a digital version of 14 more cards, on top of the 6 on this page. That's 20 cards, ready right now. Have your first conversation this weekend. The full deck arrives in January.
How pre-order works
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Order today. Your starter pack lands in your inbox in minutes.
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We print your deck in the USA. We'll email you when it goes to press.
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Your box ships in January 2027. We'll email tracking the day it leaves.
Also makes a great engagement gift.
...just sayin'.
Gift it now. Your starter pack and a printable gift note arrive instantly, and the box follows in January.
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FAQ
When will it ship?
January 2027. We'll email tracking the day it leaves.
When am I charged?
Today, when you pre-order.
What if it's delayed?
We'll email you before it happens. If we haven't shipped by February 14, 2027, you get a full refund, no questions asked.
What's in the starter pack?
A digital version of 14 more cards, on top of the 6 you see on this page. That's 20 cards to play the moment you order, before your box arrives.
Did AI write these?
AI helped, but it didn't write the deck. We started with our own engagement and a year of interviews and surveys with 50+ couples. We used AI to organize hours of that research, spot gaps in our drafts, and help analyze the ratings that came in. A panel of 9 couples rated every single question, we rewrote across 11 rounds, and a professional copy editor (Kyle's mom) edited every card.
Is this deck only for Christian couples?
Nope. We're Christians, and our faith shapes our marriage, but this deck is built for any couple who wants to do this season on purpose. Faith is one of the six categories (8 of the 54 cards). If faith isn't part of your relationship, just set those to the side and play the rest. (But fair warning: on our own time, we also pray for every couple who uses this deck 😇)
We're not engaged yet (or we're already married). Will it work for us?
The deck is built for the engaged season, because that's when these conversations get urgent, so most cards are written with a wedding on the calendar. But the questions underneath them, like money, family and how you work as a team, matter at every stage. Plenty of couples will get a great night out of it either way.